Hot take: I think group trips where everyone pays the same are unfair for budgeters

Last month, my friends planned a weekend getaway and insisted on splitting all costs evenly. I was trying to save money, so I skipped some activities and ate cheap meals. When we settled up, I had to pay for things I didn't even do, which felt really wrong. I told them I'd only cover my share, and it got quiet for a minute. But standing my ground meant I stayed on track with my savings goal. Now I push for clear spending rules before any group event. What do you do when friends don't get your budget limits?

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diana3149d ago

Did your friends act different around you after you paid only for your stuff, or did things go back to normal? I never get why splitting everything down the middle is the automatic rule, it just helps people who order the expensive stuff. Maybe they truly don't get how tight things can be when you're watching every dollar.

the_barbara9d ago

God, right? @diana314 The looks you get are priceless, like you just kicked a puppy. Things go back to normal once they realize they can't afford their own fancy drinks without your cash.