My neighbor watched me quit smoking for 2 weeks straight and then she said the one thing I didn't expect
I live in a duplex in Dayton and my neighbor Rhonda sits on her porch most evenings. When I started my swap, trading cigarettes for a 20 minute walk after dinner, she clocked it right away. Two weeks in she called me over and told me she had been keeping a tally of how many laps I did around the block and she was up to 9. Then she said the thing that stuck with me. She told me her late husband quit drinking in 1994 and what finally worked was that he started telling people his streak number out loud, every single day, like a scoreboard. She said secrets are where habits go to die. So now I yell my lap count at her porch like a weirdo and she yells it back. It sounds dumb but I have not touched a cigarette in 63 days. Has anyone else tried making their progress public to one person instead of tracking it in an app?