The day I stopped chasing perfection in my budget spreadsheet
I used to spend every Sunday night rebuilding my budget from scratch, color coding every category, and stressing over a $3 coffee. Last month in Portland, my wife caught me at 11 PM tweaking a grocery line and just said, "you're not balancing this, you're hiding from something." So I tried just writing down the big three bills and a rough spending target, no categories, no apps. It felt wrong for about a week, then I realized I was actually checking the account once a day instead of obsessing. Has anyone else found that their system was the boss fight, not the money itself?