Paid my cousin $150 to fix my brakes and it turned into a family meeting
I gave my cousin $150 to do my brakes instead of paying the shop $600, and two weeks later the pedal went soft and he stopped answering my texts. When I brought it up at my aunt's birthday, his mom jumped in and suddenly I was the bad guy for making it weird. How do you handle it when a family deal goes sideways without turning every holiday into a courtroom?