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My brother asked to borrow $500 for 'car repairs' and I found out it was for a concert trip
He called me last Tuesday sounding really stressed, saying his transmission was shot. I sent the money via Venmo because family helps family, right? Then my cousin texted me a photo of him at the big stadium show in Charlotte this past weekend, holding up a beer. I felt so stupid and used. I learned that just giving money without asking for any proof or details is a bad move, even with family. How do you guys handle loan requests when you suspect it's not for the stated reason?
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kelly.keith5d ago
My buddy got burned like that last year. His sister needed "emergency vet money" for her cat, but the whole thing was for a fancy spa weekend. He only found out because she posted pictures online. Now he asks to see the bill or invoice before sending a cent, no matter who it is.
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