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Rant: My best friend said I'm a 'convenience friend' and it stung

We were grabbing coffee last Thursday and she just flat out said I only hit her up when I need something, like moving help or a ride to the airport. She listed three times in the last 6 months where I didn't reply to her group chat invites but called her the next day for a favor. Has anyone else had a friend call them out like this and had to really look at their own behavior?
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logan_thomas87
I get why she'd be frustrated but calling you a "convenience friend" feels a little harsh, honestly. Like, if you're genuinely there when she needs you too (not just for favors) then maybe she's focusing on the wrong stuff. Sometimes people see what they want to see, you know, instead of the full picture.
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craig.grant
craig.grant5d agoProlific Poster
Borrowed a friend's truck once and returned it with an empty gas tank.
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