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Just realized I've had a standing Tuesday coffee with my friend Jen for a full year now
We started meeting at the little spot on Maple Street after we both had a rough patch, and we just kept showing up. It hit me today that we've done this 52 times, even through busy weeks and bad weather. It feels like a real win to have built that simple, steady habit with someone. Has anyone else managed to keep a regular friend date going for that long?
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wright.dakota6mo ago
It's the boring stuff that actually builds the friendship. You're not just there for the big news, you're there for the random Tuesday where nothing happens. You see the real person, not the highlight reel. That's how you get past the surface level stuff.
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violay276mo ago
My best friend and I have a whole text thread just about the weird stuff we see at the grocery store. It's mostly pictures of ugly produce or bad parking jobs. Honestly, those dumb messages mean more than the big birthday posts. I'm pretty sure my highlight reel would just be me burning toast and complaining about my feet hurting. Does anyone even have exciting Tuesdays?
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black.jordan4mo ago
Is it weird that I feel closer to someone after seeing their messy kitchen counter than after hearing about their promotion?
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